Your Heart Can’t Hold This or That It Must Be Both

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I hope this letter finds you embracing the idea of “both and…” in your Heart.

We are stuck in binary thinking. We are deeply conditioned to think in a “this or that” format. This has caused us to get stuck in very limiting mindsets that restrict the options we can see for our lives.

Male or female.

Black or white.

Good or bad.

Math or art.

Rich or poor.

This old way of thinking is an artifact of material consciousness. At the end of the Scientific Revolution, we learned to codify and measure things as “this” or “that”.

When Quantum Physics burst onto the scene we learned that there isn’t really a “this” or a “that”.

Quantum Physicists learned that you can either measure the movement of a quantum particle or the location but not both at the same time. Expectation about HOW the particle behaved influenced how the particle acted and where it would show up.

We learned that our experience of reality happens on a limitless spectrum of inclusive possibilities. The hard and fast rules of matter either being a “this” or a “that” began to dissolve. Matter was malleable. Our perception of the behavior of matter depended on our perception and expectation.

And yet, the material era and the drive to codify, measure and systematize everything continues to be pervasive in our culture. “This” or “that”.

Or rather “this = not that”.

This binary way of thinking has been incredibly divisive in our world. It invariably pits us against each other. If you’re a “this” then you are “not that”.

Over the past week, I’ve seen a lot of social media posts about “prayers and thoughts”. I saw one meme that actually had a big red “X” on it crossing out the words “prayers and thoughts” with the phrase “policy change” written on top of the crossed-out words.

thoughts and prayers and policy change when heart is needed

I am a stickler for how we use language. The words we use hold a frequency of energy. Words build the energetic infrastructure for what we seek to build in the world. We must use words very deliberately because of the power that words hold.

While I am in TOTAL agreement that “prayers and thoughts” are only the FIRST step in creating, there is a real danger to saying that we should exchange “prayers and thoughts” for “policy change”. This or that.

I am VERY clear that we have to take right ACTION to create change in the world. We still live on a third-dimensional planet. That means that to get things done we have to physically do the work.

But action is tricky. To be truly effective, you have to act with the right energy. If you are reacting instead of acting, even though your physical acts may be helpful in the moment, the energy you are transmitting may actually serve to keep us divided instead of unified, ultimately causing chaos and pain to happen in cycles again and again and again.

I do not want to live on a planet where action is NOT preceded or doesn’t include the alignment necessary (thoughts and prayers) to ensure that the action is directed and the true fulfillment of the intention. Action preceded by thoughts and prayers is deliberate and intentional. Action without thoughts and prayers is reactive and potentially harmful.

Here is a list of some recent scientific discoveries that might surprise you:

  1. Prayer DOES work when you do it correctly.
  2. When you send “love” to someone, scientists can actually physically measure when the recipient “receives” the love, even when they are on the other side of the world.
  3. We are all connected and influenced by magnetic fields, including the geomagnetic energies located in the atmosphere. When something happens on the planet or in the environment, we ALL feel it in our bodies.
  4. The Heart has its own powerful magnetic field that energetically and physiologically connects us. Our heartbeats actually syncopate when we are in groups together.
  5. Your thoughts and emotions can influence random events and your HEART can predict an event before your mind is even aware that it is going to happen.

Scientists are now studying whether our collective HEART energy can actually influence the geomagnetic energy of the planet and the early results are pretty affirming! Your “thoughts and prayers” or “love and light” can actually change the global atmosphere.

Sending your Love and Light may actually be one of the most powerful things you can do to make the world a more loving, abundant and sustainable place.

But, you have to send Love and Light correctly. You have to do it with the right energy, the right mindset and you have to be doing it from a pure place.  You can’t be attached or reactive.  You have to be in the “flow” of love.

Knowing how to turn on the healing power of your heart and activate the pure quantum potential of the Heart is a powerful skill that will not only help you send powerful Love and Light to the world but can actually:

  • Help you tap into greater levels of intelligence and creativity
  • Increase your DHA levels and decrease your cortisol levels helping you minimize the effects of stress on your body
  • Help school students with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder demonstrated improved short- and long-term memory, ability to focus, and improvements in home and school behavior.
  • Increase your performance and lower frustration
  • Improve cognitive function in people with PTSD
  • Improved heart function and blood pressure, lower stress and cortisol, and reduce health care costs.
  • Help you lower blood pressure, cholesterol, glucose, stress, anger, hostility, frustration, fatigue and hostility.

The key here to getting these benefits (and more) and to really changing the energy of the planet is to have the proper skills to open up your Heart. There is a real science to knowing how to harness the amazing power of your Heart.

Personally, I believe that getting as many people to open their Hearts and tap into the true creative power of their Hearts is one of the most important and powerful things we can do to create a world of sustainable resources and sustainable peace.

We are designed to be compassionate, loving beings who work together to create unlimited possibilities and make them manifest on this beautiful and bountiful planet.

Please enjoy this short “mini-lesson” I created for you to help you get re-acquainted with your Heart’s Intelligence.

Here’s to deliberate and guided action that is calibrated by the Heart of Us All.

From my Heart to yours,

Karen

Want to learn more?

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Jamila Jamie

Jamila Jamie joined the team in 2020 and is now the Director of the Quantum Alignment System™, which is the advanced integrated Professional Training created by Karen Curry Parker that blends the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), Quantum Human Design™, subtle body therapies (quantum essential oils & quantum flower essences) and traditional coaching. She is the point of contact from the moment you sign up for QAS Professional Training all the way through Certification. Jamila is the creator of the powerful Flower Essences used in this program.

Jamila is a 2/4 Time Bender (Manifesting Generator), Mother of one son, three precious fur babies 🐶🐾 and in true Time Bender fashion is a multi-passionate entrepreneur.

She is a Quantum Energist, Certified Homeopath, Quantum Alignment System Practitioner & Quantum Human Design Specialist as well as certified in numerous other energy healing and psychology techniques.

From as long as she can remember she was always able to see and know things about people by being able to “read” their energy. An avid learner and self-proclaimed geek, she has been delving in Human Design for over 10 years and uses this as the guidepost in all her work.

Jamila is also the creator of Quantum Essences. A unique and powerful holistic line of what her clients call “magical potions” 🪄 that elevate energy healing and help you realign with your energy template.

Jamila has written for several established websites and magazines. It is her passion to help women liberate their energy and take back their power, so they live authentically…Bold, Fierce, & Free.

Kristin Anne

Kristin Anne joined the team in 2020 and is now the Chief Operating Officer (COO) overseeing and managing the daily operations of the Quantum Alignment System, LLC in its purpose and mission of waking people up to their innate creativity and unlimited possibility through modeling and teaching grace, contribution and alignment with the Cosmic Plan.

Kristin is Made to Love ❤️ it’s what she does, it’s Who she is. She even has it tattooed on her left forearm so it’s the first thing she sees when waking up every day as a reminder of why she’s here. Everything she does, says and shares is from the abundance and overflow of Love that just oozes out of her (and not because her life has been all sunshine and roses, it’s her dark days and life experiences that have refined her into the Light she is today.) It’s why regardless of what her day was like or what’s going on in the world she can lay her head down at night and wake up each morning in deep deep gratitude for being Alive and still having people in her life that she gets to Love and serve.

She now gets the honor and privilege of being the person in people’s lives that she used to wish was in hers. She has over 20 years of business management and administration experience. She’s obsessed with process improvement, organization, streamlining, simplification, details and communication. (Oh and Checklists! ✅ Can’t forget the checklists.)

She’s a 2/4 Time Bender (Manifesting Generator), Gemini Sun & Moon and Leo Rising, Certified Quantum Human Design Specialist, Yoga and Reiki Practitioner. She is also a wife to an amazing and supportive partner, Momma of two precious fur babies 🐶🐾 and Soul Sister to many incredible friends who she considers family, a bunch of who she’s met through the beautiful and amazing community that Karen has built.

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