Sexual Awareness and Healing

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Have you ever been in a relationship where the sexuality of the relationship was confusing or even hurtful to you?

Maybe your partner has criticized your sexual style or pressured you into expressing yourself in a way that isn’t comfortable for you.

Sometimes we can also feel like our partners are stuck or sexually boring.  Even that can be confusing, especially when you don’t understand the mechanics of sexuality.

Sexual energy and attraction is actually a pretty mechanical thing.  In fact, I can almost predict by looking at two charts, what kind of sexual energy a relationship will have.  Our sexuality and how we like to express it is hard-wired and we are all uniquely designed.

I’m often saddened by how many people really think they are sexually dysfunctional or broken when the only thing wrong with them is that they don’t understand who they are and how they are hard-wired.

Everyone IS designed to have joyful sex.  But how we create that is unique to every one of us.

Understanding your sexual hard-wiring and the hard-wiring of your partner(s) can help you heal, deepen your relationship and accept yourself for who you are.

I’ll share with you a very personal example.  I was once in a relationship that utterly devastated my self-esteem.  The man I dated had been married four times and asked me to be his fifth wife…on our third date.  I am a sixth line profile, which means that I long for a soulmate relationship.  At the time when he asked me to marry him, I felt so deeply that we were “meant to be” that I didn’t question his commitment at all.

I literally moved my children and my whole life across the country to be with my “fiance”.  It was a nightmare.  As soon as we moved in, my “fiance” began to have lots of doubts.  He wanted to try having an open relationship, wanted out of the relationship, wanted back in the relationship, wanted to experiment with things I was very uncomfortable with and was completely unclear about just about everything between us.

I have the Gate 29, Commitment in my Conscious Sun.  I wanted a commitment and this man couldn’t even commit to the status of our relationship for an evening, much less a lifetime.  I eventually broke up with him and moved out.

The nature of the relationship left me really questioning myself, my value, my lovability and my beauty.  I couldn’t understand why I wasn’t “enough” for this guy and I gave up having any kind of serious relationship for years afterwards.  (Which was actually a healthy and good thing…)

Of course, that was my own garbage.  The issues between me and this man weren’t personal.  When I looked at his Human Design I realized that he wasn’t designed for monogamy, much less marriage.  He was designed to be impulsive in his relationships and had a tendency to fall in love at first sight.  And then fall out of love just as quickly.  He was seductive and experimental by nature.  And struggled with direction in life in several ways in his chart.

He didn’t purposely treat me badly or try to hurt me.  But he was pretty unaware of who he was and how he operated in the context of relationships, leaving a string of hurt women behind him as he flitted from attraction to attraction.

Again, it wasn’t personal.  And, other than not being self-aware, he wasn’t doing anything wrong.  He was being who he was.

Having this level of understanding of the mechanics of our relationship gave me so much peace and healing.  I wasn’t broken or unattractive.  I was more than “enough”.  We just weren’t a good fit.  The mechanics between us weren’t working.

If you’re ready to accept yourself on a deep level and use your awareness to love yourself and your partner in a more authentic, vulnerable and joyful way, I invite you tonight to my “Alive by Human Design!” teleclass, Human Design and Sexuality.

If you’ve got questions about your sexuality, what makes you tick, what turns you on or off, your relationships style, your bonding strategy, what attracts you, what makes you stay in a relationship and what makes you stray, how to love your partner better and more, you want to be here…

Human Design and Sexuality 

One of the courses in the Understanding Human Design Community – find out more at

Here’s what you’ll learn:

  • How to discover your “bonding strategy” in your chart
  • What is “normal” sexuality for you
  • What kinds of relationships are good for you
  • How to be a better partner
  • How to accept your sexuality without judging yourself (and others)
  • How to determine your “romance” style and what you can do to create more romance in your life.
  • How to stop taking sexual judgement personally.  (Hey!  We’re all unique!!)

This is a powerful program for you whether you’re single, married or any other combination.

In my years as a Human Design teacher, this information is the most fun, enlightening and important information you can learn about yourself and your partner.

If you’ve ever wondered what’s “wrong” with you…on Wednesday, I’m going to show you what’s RIGHT about you!


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One Reply to “Sexual Awareness and Healing”

  1. HI Karen
    when you committed to that marriage and you mentioned gate 29 , did you ignore your sacral response to the question of marriage or did you not “recognise” it ,
    I have gate 29 too and can often commit myself as you put it “do death ”
    regards harry

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Jamila Jamie

Jamila Jamie joined the team in 2020 and is now the Director of the Quantum Alignment System™, which is the advanced integrated Professional Training created by Karen Curry Parker that blends the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), Quantum Human Design™, subtle body therapies (quantum essential oils & quantum flower essences) and traditional coaching. She is the point of contact from the moment you sign up for QAS Professional Training all the way through Certification. Jamila is the creator of the powerful Flower Essences used in this program.

Jamila is a 2/4 Time Bender (Manifesting Generator), Mother of one son, three precious fur babies 🐶🐾 and in true Time Bender fashion is a multi-passionate entrepreneur.

She is a Quantum Energist, Certified Homeopath, Quantum Alignment System Practitioner & Quantum Human Design Specialist as well as certified in numerous other energy healing and psychology techniques.

From as long as she can remember she was always able to see and know things about people by being able to “read” their energy. An avid learner and self-proclaimed geek, she has been delving in Human Design for over 10 years and uses this as the guidepost in all her work.

Jamila is also the creator of Quantum Essences. A unique and powerful holistic line of what her clients call “magical potions” 🪄 that elevate energy healing and help you realign with your energy template.

Jamila has written for several established websites and magazines. It is her passion to help women liberate their energy and take back their power, so they live authentically…Bold, Fierce, & Free.

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Kristin Anne joined the team in 2020 and is now the Chief Operating Officer (COO) overseeing and managing the daily operations of the Quantum Alignment System, LLC in its purpose and mission of waking people up to their innate creativity and unlimited possibility through modeling and teaching grace, contribution and alignment with the Cosmic Plan.

Kristin is Made to Love ❤️ it’s what she does, it’s Who she is. She even has it tattooed on her left forearm so it’s the first thing she sees when waking up every day as a reminder of why she’s here. Everything she does, says and shares is from the abundance and overflow of Love that just oozes out of her (and not because her life has been all sunshine and roses, it’s her dark days and life experiences that have refined her into the Light she is today.) It’s why regardless of what her day was like or what’s going on in the world she can lay her head down at night and wake up each morning in deep deep gratitude for being Alive and still having people in her life that she gets to Love and serve.

She now gets the honor and privilege of being the person in people’s lives that she used to wish was in hers. She has over 20 years of business management and administration experience. She’s obsessed with process improvement, organization, streamlining, simplification, details and communication. (Oh and Checklists! ✅ Can’t forget the checklists.)

She’s a 2/4 Time Bender (Manifesting Generator), Gemini Sun & Moon and Leo Rising, Certified Quantum Human Design Specialist, Yoga and Reiki Practitioner. She is also a wife to an amazing and supportive partner, Momma of two precious fur babies 🐶🐾 and Soul Sister to many incredible friends who she considers family, a bunch of who she’s met through the beautiful and amazing community that Karen has built.

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