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If you Love an Initiator (Manifestor)

Manifestor Type

Initiators (Manifestors in Traditional Human Design) are powerful energy beings who are here to create.

They have an internal, non-verbal creative flow and when they want to do something, they simply get into their creative flow and make it happen.⁠⁠
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Initiators can seem like fast-moving, independent people who just leap up and go do something. Our natural impulse when we see an Initiator on the move is to try to offer them our assistance or ask them what they’re doing. Our questioning often triggers a despairing or sometimes even “snappy” reply and we get our feelings hurt or don’t feel needed in response.⁠⁠
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Sometimes we feel angry with our Initiator beloveds because they just do things and forget to tell us what they’re up to and we’re confused about what the “plan” is because we don’t know what’s going on!⁠⁠
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The good news is that none of this is personal!⁠⁠
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Your Initiator beloved isn’t purposely leaving you out, messing with your plans or snapping at you because of anything you’ve done wrong.⁠⁠
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It’s hard for an Initiator to find the words to describe what they’re doing. Remember, they have an internal NON-VERBAL creative flow. It takes a lot of energy for them to stop and find the words to tell you what they’re doing. When they do stop, they lose they’re creative flow, so they feel exasperated or even angry.⁠⁠

If you love an Initiator, learn to get information from them by engaging with them with curiosity and using phrases such as:⁠⁠

⁠⁠“I’m wondering how you feel about….”⁠
“I’m curious what you think about…..”⁠⁠
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Initiators need a lot of freedom to do what they feel inspired to do. Don’t be hurt if they seemingly don’t need you. They probably don’t and if they do, they’ll let you know.⁠⁠
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The good news is that they LOVE you and WANT you, even if they don’t [ need ] you to get things done. There is a big difference between “needing” and “loving”. Even though your Initiator may seem to be an independent person, that doesn’t mean they don’t love you and that they aren’t grateful to have you in their life.⁠⁠

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Kristin Anne

Kristin Anne joined the team in 2020 and is now the Chief Operating Officer (COO) overseeing and managing the daily operations of the Quantum Alignment System, LLC in its purpose and mission of waking people up to their innate creativity and unlimited possibility through modeling and teaching grace, contribution and alignment with the Cosmic Plan.

Kristin is Made to Love ❤️ it’s what she does, it’s Who she is. She even has it tattooed on her left forearm so it’s the first thing she sees when waking up every day as a reminder of why she’s here. Everything she does, says and shares is from the abundance and overflow of Love that just oozes out of her (and not because her life has been all sunshine and roses, it’s her dark days and life experiences that have refined her into the Light she is today.) It’s why regardless of what her day was like or what’s going on in the world she can lay her head down at night and wake up each morning in deep deep gratitude for being Alive and still having people in her life that she gets to Love and serve.

She now gets the honor and privilege of being the person in people’s lives that she used to wish was in hers. She has over 20 years of business management and administration experience. She’s obsessed with process improvement, organization, streamlining, simplification, details and communication. (Oh and Checklists! ✅ Can’t forget the checklists.)

She’s a 2/4 Time Bender (Manifesting Generator), Gemini Sun & Moon and Leo Rising, Certified Quantum Human Design Specialist, Yoga and Reiki Practitioner. She is also a wife to an amazing and supportive partner, Momma of two precious fur babies 🐶🐾 and Soul Sister to many incredible friends who she considers family, a bunch of who she’s met through the beautiful and amazing community that Karen has built.

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