Calibrators (Reflectors in Traditional Human Design) are fully open to the world and to others because there are no defined centers by design.
Calibrators take in the energy of everybody else, seeing the world through others eyes, sampling a frequency of energy and reflecting it back.
Calibrators are like a mirror and the reflection of other people continually change their perception. It’s essential for Calibrators to carefully choose their friends and partners. They will have a huge impact on their feelings and experience of themselves.
Calibrators have considerably different life experiences than all of the other Types, so sometimes they may feel alone and misunderstood. They may require more attention than most all other people (and Types) and because of this, at times they may feel inadequate and think that they don’t fit anywhere.
The most uncomfortable thing for Calibrators is pressure, especially the pressure to make decisions.
They need to experience a choice or decision over a full cycle of the Moon (29 days). It’s not the same as making a decision with the mind. They have to experience their choice inside of themselves over time. Going through the entire cycle gives them the power to be able to realize solutions and right choices.
Calibrators need people because they are non-energy beings and depend on the energetic connections that others provide them, but they also need their alone time so that they can discharge all of the energy they absorb daily.
Calibrators can easily “merge” with the people around them. In relationships, they can easily “match” their partners. It’s easy for them to not realize that they’re giving up their own needs and wants because they’ve lost their energetic connection to themselves.
If you love a Calibrator then, love them as they are; don’t try to change them and appreciate their very important role for Humanity. Honor their long decision-making sequences and hold space for them to speak while you just listen. Understand that they may need you more than you need them. Know that you’ll see the truth about yourself through them and be okay with that revelation.
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