Am I Normal?

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Sex is a pretty hot topic.

Over the past 14 years that I’ve worked with Human Design, I’ve learned that most people are worried about whether they are “normal” or not.

When it comes to sex, there is no such thing as “normal”.  We are a pretty complex and diverse species.

Truth is, we are sexual beings.  We’re designed to be.  In Human Design, the center for sex and sexuality, the Sacral Center,  is the most powerful motor in the body.  It’s also the only consistent sustainable energy source in the Human Design chart.

When we look at the energy for sexuality and it’s connections in the chart, it’s a pretty complex thing.  Sex is connected to the energy for work, reproduction, marriage, contracts, war, peace, resources, values, nature, abundance, mutation, focus and concentration, rhythm and starting and finishing things…

No wonder our ideas about sex and sexuality are so varied and complicated…

We have so many funny ideas about sex and sexuality.  We’re bombarded with images that are glaringly sexual and yet we’re taught that one-night-stand sex is bad or dirty.  We’re fed the idea that sex is supposed to happen in committed partnerships, with one person, of the opposite gender.  And many, if not most of us, struggle to try to fit our sexuality into that narrow little box.

Truth is, when you look at a Human Design chart, there is no one-size-fits-all definition of what is good, normal sex.  As humans we are designed to be monogamous, polyamorous, married, single, parents, without kids, soul mates, one night stands, friends first, seductive, shy, experimental, consistent, sensual and a godzillion other combinations.

In other words, as long as no one gets hurt and everything is consensual, there really is no wrong way to express sexuality.

The only that that consistent is that we are designed to make sure that we are emotionally clear about our choice to engage in a sexual relationship.  It’s not designed to be a choice that is taken lightly because…well…sex has life and death consequences.

If you’ve got questions about your sexuality, what makes you tick, what turns you on or off, your relationships style, your bonding strategy, what attracts you, what makes you stay in a relationship and what makes you stray, how to love your partner better and more… join our Understanding Human Design Community – Sexuality and Human Design is one of the general Human Design Courses there – find out more at

Here’s what you’ll learn:

  1. How to discover your “bonding strategy” in your chart
  2. What is “normal” sexuality for you
  3. What kinds of relationships are good for you
  4. How to be a better partner
  5. How to accept your sexuality without judging yourself (and others)
  6. How to determine your “romance” style and what you can do to create more romance in your life.
  7. How to stop taking sexual judgement personally.  (Hey!  We’re all unique!!)

This is a powerful program for you whether you’re single, married or any other combination.

In my years as a Human Design teacher, this information is the most fun, enlightening and important information you can learn about yourself and your partner.

If you’ve ever wondered what’s “wrong” with you…on Wednesday, I’m going to show you what’s RIGHT about you!

Please join me:



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Jamila Jamie

Jamila Jamie joined the team in 2020 and is now the Director of the Quantum Alignment System™, which is the advanced integrated Professional Training created by Karen Curry Parker that blends the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), Quantum Human Design™, subtle body therapies (quantum essential oils & quantum flower essences) and traditional coaching. She is the point of contact from the moment you sign up for QAS Professional Training all the way through Certification. Jamila is the creator of the powerful Flower Essences used in this program.

Jamila is a 2/4 Time Bender (Manifesting Generator), Mother of one son, three precious fur babies 🐶🐾 and in true Time Bender fashion is a multi-passionate entrepreneur.

She is a Quantum Energist, Certified Homeopath, Quantum Alignment System Practitioner & Quantum Human Design Specialist as well as certified in numerous other energy healing and psychology techniques.

From as long as she can remember she was always able to see and know things about people by being able to “read” their energy. An avid learner and self-proclaimed geek, she has been delving in Human Design for over 10 years and uses this as the guidepost in all her work.

Jamila is also the creator of Quantum Essences. A unique and powerful holistic line of what her clients call “magical potions” 🪄 that elevate energy healing and help you realign with your energy template.

Jamila has written for several established websites and magazines. It is her passion to help women liberate their energy and take back their power, so they live authentically…Bold, Fierce, & Free.

Kristin Anne

Kristin Anne joined the team in 2020 and is now the Chief Operating Officer (COO) overseeing and managing the daily operations of the Quantum Alignment System, LLC in its purpose and mission of waking people up to their innate creativity and unlimited possibility through modeling and teaching grace, contribution and alignment with the Cosmic Plan.

Kristin is Made to Love ❤️ it’s what she does, it’s Who she is. She even has it tattooed on her left forearm so it’s the first thing she sees when waking up every day as a reminder of why she’s here. Everything she does, says and shares is from the abundance and overflow of Love that just oozes out of her (and not because her life has been all sunshine and roses, it’s her dark days and life experiences that have refined her into the Light she is today.) It’s why regardless of what her day was like or what’s going on in the world she can lay her head down at night and wake up each morning in deep deep gratitude for being Alive and still having people in her life that she gets to Love and serve.

She now gets the honor and privilege of being the person in people’s lives that she used to wish was in hers. She has over 20 years of business management and administration experience. She’s obsessed with process improvement, organization, streamlining, simplification, details and communication. (Oh and Checklists! ✅ Can’t forget the checklists.)

She’s a 2/4 Time Bender (Manifesting Generator), Gemini Sun & Moon and Leo Rising, Certified Quantum Human Design Specialist, Yoga and Reiki Practitioner. She is also a wife to an amazing and supportive partner, Momma of two precious fur babies 🐶🐾 and Soul Sister to many incredible friends who she considers family, a bunch of who she’s met through the beautiful and amazing community that Karen has built.

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